Love Theories

Yup, tempatnya di Jalan Lengkong Besar No 97. Tempatnya cozy banget nihh buat dateng bareng bebeb. Meski harga makanannya terbilang lumayan, tapi terbayarlah sama fasilitas-fasilitas di sini.. Nilai plus buat kamu yang mau ke sini, di Atmosphere ini bebas asap rokok loh, jadi nggak perlu repot pindah tempat duduk kalau ada yang ngerokok :))

Hai girls !!! Welcome back to Love Theories <3
Yes, as you think. Now I will tell you about "if a man truly loves you", so.. If now you're doubt his love.. It means you REALLY NEED to read this post ;)


Yes this is an important thing, girls!! Can you imagine if you have a relationship with a man who never accept you as you are? It will be a really hard relationship and unhealthy relationship, of course. But, I want to add my opinion. A man who truly loves you will love you just the way your are. But he will never let you live just like that way. He wants you to be better everyday. Not for himself, but for you too.

He doesnt feel shame or afraid to ask you for help. Because he know he can count on you and he trusts you that you'll help them. Remember, even the strongest man in this earth, he needs a woman to help him. God didn't made Adam alone, HE thinks that a man needs someone to help him, so HE made Eve.


This is one of girls favourite things. Right? Be a priority. Everyone wants to be a priority for someone, and if you can get this from a man. Trust me girls, he loves you so much.


See the difference? A healthy relationship is full of laugh, not full of tears. And that laugh is both of you laugh together. Your laugh will be his laugh too. And he'll never laugh at you.


Yes, I believe he will do this if he loves you. He will always want to be with you. BUT, he knows that he can't all the time with you, and he cant always (24/7) be right by yourside. He knows that sometimes, you have to be independent. You can do all things with him, or without him.


Almost the same with the 5th point, he can't always 24/7 be right by your side. But, he will always find time for you, because you are his priority (3rd point). Even for just call you to hear your voice. Or even come to your home just to see your face and say "i miss you"..
Unch <3


You are not always strong, everyone has their own fall time. And when you (girls) are in this time. You fall, you get down, and you cant rise up alone. Without you ask him to rise you up. He will do it for you before you ask it. But sometimes, for some cases.. You have to ask first. But trust me, he will do everything to make you feel better when you feel bad or in badmood. He will strengthen you when you're weak. He will support everything you do (if it is good) and he will get mad if you do the really bad things. I mean get mad is, mad because of your act..

Yeah, thats all. I hope you will be more sure about your boyfriend, or your relationship. If you find that your man are truly love you. Love him as much as you can, because he is really rare.

Laff laff..
Mimin <3

Haii !! Mimin kepo dong, yang baca sekarang single atau taken? Karena post kali ini, cocok banget buat yang taken & single, heheh..

Okay, sesuai judulnya, mimin bakal bagiin apa aja sih ciri-ciri & tips pacaran yang sehat.. Jangan² hubungan kamu & doi selama ini nggak sehat? Sipdeh, let's check this out!

1. Kalian sama-sama punya komitmen yang kuat untuk menjalani hubungan ini.

Yep, jaman sekarang siapa sih yang  suka hubungan yang cuma main-main? Betapa enaknya kalau hubungan dijalanin sama 2 orang yang bener-bener serius untuk menjalaninya dan tau tujuan dari hubungan kalian apa..
Coba deh diliat", tujuan hubungan pacaran kamu & doi buat apa sih? Kalau cuma untuk main-main, mending jangan deh.. Mau dipertahanin juga, UUSH. Ujung-Ujungnya Sakit Hati.


2. Kalian sering bertengkar.

NAHLOH. Maksudnya apa nih min? Yaa yang jelas yang mimin maksud adalah bertengkar buat hal yang puguh gitu, bukan dikit-dikit ngambek. Doi cuek dikit ribut.. NO! Bukan yang kayak gitu.. Pasti dong dalam hubungan pernah terjadi kesalahpahaman, dan akhirnya bertengkar.
Tapi bertengkarlah yang dewasa.. Omongin baik-baik dengan kepala dingin, jangan sampai pas kepala masih hot, terus ribut.. Wah bawaannya omongan menusuk hati semua yang keluar. Dan pas berantem, kalian berdua hadapi dengan dewasa.. Harus ada salah 1 yang mengalah, atau dua-duanya mengalah juga boleh. Cari solusi dari pertengkaran kalian, dan setelah itu.. Baikan deh, jangan ingat-ingat pertengkaran kalian.. Tapi ingat selalu apa yang kamu dapet dari pertengkaran itu.. Karena biasanya habis bertengkar, kamu lebih bisa kenal si doi dan lebih awet loh hubungannya..


3. Kalian berdua tetep jaga kekudusan.

YES! Ini penting banget, dan salah satu indikator paling kuat nih.. Hubungan kalian adalah hubungan yang saling ngejaga satu sama lain.. Baik hati maupun fisik, kalau doi kamu pacaran sama kamu, tapi kerjaannya pegang".. NAHLOH, balik lagi ke nomor 1, apa tujuan hubungan kalian? Jaga baik" kekudusan kamu karena itu hadiah pernikahan dari Tuhan buat kalian (kalau udah menikah).. Buat kamu (cewek dan cowok) tahan bener² nafsunya.. Inget yaa, yang namanya kekudusan kalau udah terambil, nggak akan bisa dikembaliin lagi..
JANGAN ikutin arus yang namanya relationship goals, eh taunya dosa. Salah besar tuh.. Hubungan bisa kok menyenangkan tanpa harus yang namanya physical touch, meski memang physical touch adalah salah 1 bahasa kasih juga.

4. Tetep punya relasi yang baik dengan teman-teman.

Ini nih yang sering terjadi kalau udah jadian alias taken.. Pas udah ada bebeb, eh temen-temennya ditinggalin deh.. Dunia milik berdua doang. Kemana-mana berdua.. Duh kadang liatnya sedih mimin mah.. Kenapa? Karena hubungan pacaran itu ya untuk mengenal lebih jauh soal pasangan yang nanti nikah sama kamu.. Tapi bukan berarti jadi berduaan terus (ps : mimin bukan iri sama yang berduaan terus sama pacarnya yah)

Tapi memang bukan hal yang baik.. Kamu harus tetep jaga hubungan dengan teman-teman kamu yang lain.. Dunia nggak cuma sebesar kertas tisu. Meski sudah pacaran, tetep punya pertemanan yang luas dengan siapa aja ya..


5. Doi mau buat kenal keluarga kamu.

Melanjutkan dari poin 1 & 4 ya, dunia jangan milik berdua doang.. Doi punya keluarga juga, kamu juga punya keluarga.. Kalau masing-masing penge serius, pasti ada juga kemauan buat kenal keluarga doi.. Plus, setelah kamu kenal keluarga doi dan direstui, hubungan jadi lebih enak tuh, lebih ayem, lebih langgeng..


6. Saling jaga hati satu sama lain.

Ini penting nih. Karena hubungan pake apa? Hati dong, pake perasaan.. Jangan sampe kamu dengan sengaja nyakitin hati & perasaan doi.. Misal, sengaja ah bikin doi cemburu, atau sengaja ah nyakitin hati dia depan banyak orang.. Aduduh, jangan banget. Dont try this at EVERYWHERE.


Nah.. Sekian ciri-ciri pacaran yang sehat + dengan tipsnya.. Dijadikan cermin buat hubungan kalian ya, kalau ada hal yang ternyata berlawanan, boleh diomongin sama doi, terus dicari solusinya supaya hubungan makin awet. Atau kalau udah keterlaluan, patut dipertimbangkan nih hubungannya mau kemana..

Thank you for reading :)

Bonus material : 12 signs "it's time to move on from a relationship"

Love words you can say to your bae 💋

❤ I choose you. And I'll choose you over and over and over. Without  pause, without a doubt, in a heartbeat. I'll keep choosing you.

❤ I still remember the first time I fell for you. I havem't gotten up yet.

❤ मी तुझ्यावर प्रेम करतो. नेहमी.
Mī tujhyāvara prēma karatō. Nēhamī.
I love you. Always.
(Marathi language)

❤ When I'm with you, hours feel like second. When we're apart, days feel like years.

❤ Je ne peux pas vivre sans toi.
I can't live without you.
(French language)

❤ I've never loved my name until your voice said it.

❤ I wonder if we ever think of each other at the same time.

❤ i have completely fall for you. Everything you do, everything you say, everything you are. You are my first thought in the morning, you are the last thought before I fall asleep. And. You're almost every tought in between

❤ I'd rather have bad times with you, than good time with someone else. I'd rather be beside you in a storm, than safe and warm by myself. I'd rather have hard times together than to have it easy apart. I'd rather have the one who holds my heart.

❤ C’est cela l’amour, tout donner, tout sacrifier sans espoir de retour.
That is love, to give away everything, to sacrifice everything, without the slightest desire to get anything in return.
-Albert Camus-

❤ I can't promise you a perfect relationship. What I can promise you is that if you're trying, I'm staying.

❤ I just want you to know, that when I picture myself happy. It's with you.

❤ I wish I could explain your eyes, and how the sound of your voice gives me butterflies. How your smile makes my heart skip a beat and how everytime I'm with you, I feel so complete.

❤ Before I met you, I never knew what it was like to be able to look at someone and smile for no reason

❤ Sometimes, I look at you and wonder how I got to be so damn lucky.

❤ Remember the day we first started talking to each other? Cause that's what started you & I.

❤ Why would I look at the stars if your eyes shine brighter than them?

❤ If I could give you one thing in life, I would give you the ability to see yourself through my eyes. Only then would you realize how special you are to me.

❤ Dear my bae. You are my best friend, my shoulder to lean on. The one person I know I can count on, you're the love of my life. You're my everything.

❤ My perfect day has nothing to do with the weather or what I'm doing. My perfect day is whenever I am with you.

❤ I thank my God everytime I remember you.

❤ I love hearing your voice even just for a few minutes. It's like a hug from far away.

❤ You don't need to be perfect to be loved.

❤ You're special to me. You're the only one who I wouldn't mind losing sleep for, the only one who I can never get tired of talking to, and the only one who crosses my mind constantly through out the day. You're the only one who can makes me smile without trying, bring down my mood without intention and affect my emotions with every action of yours. I can't explain with just words how much you mean to me, but you're the only one I'm afraid of losing and the one I want to keep in my life.

❤ Loving you is easy, missing you is hard, wishing you where with me bound by a strong cord, all the time thinking of you when we were apart. I want to be with you forever.

❤ Je t'aime plus qu'hier mais moins qur demain
 I love you more than yesterday, but less than tomorrow.

❤ missing you comes in waves, and tonight I'm drowning.

❤ Tu me manques
 You are missing from me = I miss you.

❤ I don't need expensive things, I just need you.

❤ When I tell you I love you
I don't say it out of habit
I say to remind you that
you're the best thing that
ever happened to me.

❤You're the sunshine that makes my day.

❤ My favourite place is inside your arms.

❤ Let me love you, if not for the rest of your life, then for the rest of my life.

❤ I wish that you were here, or that I were there or that we were together anywhere.

❤ It's nice to have someone in your life who can make you smile even when they're not around.

❤ I love you more than words can show. I think of you more than you could ever know, until forever this will be true, because there is no one I would ever love the way I love you.

❤ Yeah, I'm selfish. Because I will never share you with anyone else.

❤ Let's flip coin. Heads, I'm yours. Tails, you're mine.

❤ And the day spent with you is my favourite day. So today is my favourite day.

❤ I saw that you were perfect so I loved you. Then I saw that you're not perfect and I love you even more.

❤ And only you look in my eyes, like there was something in me worth seeing
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